Most gamers do not always think about other players, especially if they are only doing campaigns or single player games. But have you ever watched another gamer play? Maybe had a teammate who wasn’t pulling their weight (not just one game, but repeatedly)? I was watching some people play on a kiosk at Best Buy, when they messed up. It wasn’t a small mess up, like missed one note or only got one of the coins instead of two. It was a HUGE mess up. Their reaction was “Stupid controller, doesn’t work correctly.” Then they angrily walked away.

Hello, it’s not the controller that makes the game. It’s the user. I do understand controllers can mess up, and that systems at stores do not always work the greatest. But this is an issue I see a lot, especially online in team matches. When a group of us are playing, occasionally you will have the one player who is having a bad day (or maybe just a bad match up). Their response is always “My connection is bad.” or “The game must have a glitch.”

Why can’t people just say, “Sorry guys, I’m having an off day.” Please quit blaming the lighting, the connection, the controller, the game, or whatever other excuses you have. It’s your fault, you made the error. Just remember “Thou Shall Take the Blame”, it’s not the end of the world. I promise all gamer have bad days. It’s not just you. 
 

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Chadness

Yeah, I see that a lot, as well. People tend not to want to take responsibility for their own actions. (Raiding with 39 other people in WoW back in the day, I saw this several times per day, unfortunately.)

Of course, even good people have bad days and can fall into this habit. I tend to just shrug it off most times, but secretly I'm thinking exactly what you said in this post. ;)

klasco

sometimes the controls are crap

need i mention halo 3 which just had to change the reload button because it wanted to be different and hip, stupid Bungie did they not learn from the 60's!

...though on a serious note i actually do not see the behaviour a lot in fact its rather rare i find usually its amongst my friends.

totcm

"Why can't people just say, "Sorry guys, I'm having an off day." Please quit blaming the lighting, the connection, the controller, the game, or whatever other excuses you have. It's your fault, you made the error. Just remember "Thou Shall Take the Blame", it's not the end of the world. I promise all gamer have bad days. It's not just you. "
- and for most of us (like me), I just suck.

Maybe that needs to be another rant or the like .... just because some of us want to have fun with a game and aren't "pros" or spend 24/7 with our games, that meybe we won't be as good as you (but that does not mean that we cannot have fun). That is my biggest complaint when I attempt to play with friends or others online ... yes I suck, I know it, but I want to have fun too ... where do those of us who suck need to go to have our fun?

z0rk

Unfortunately, this is simply an extension of modern society. I spilled coffee in my lap and burned myself? Must've been the restaurant's fault. Didn't pass a test? There's a problem with the way the test is written - it's biased.

We're becoming a society less and less capable/willing to take responsibility for our own actions every day. It only makes sense that this attitude would find expression in every micro-culture in which we find ourselves - including gaming.

BigWhale

Strange, when I play FPSes, my connection is always bad and my mouse is acting up. Really, always, my K/D ratio will confirm this. ;>

I do agree with totcm, we, the ones that suck, want to have fun too. :)

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